I sincerely hope your friends mother won her battle.That’s neat. But just because somebody is switching schools it doesn’t make them soft. And it’s easier for a player to switch schools than it is for a coach to? Good! It should be. Coaches are hardly bound by their contracts anyway. If they get fired they get their buyout, and if somebody else hires them the new schools pays the buyout. The coaches themselves are never on the hook for their buyout. There’s literally nothing holding a coach to one place. Generalizing all players who transfer as “soft” is a pretty soft take considering the multitude of reasons somebody might wish to transfer.
I played with a guy from Atlanta who was at a school out of state going into his senior year. His mother got cancer and he wanted to come back home to Tech so he could be closer to her. He had to fight the NCAA tooth and nail for his eligibility and right to play his senior year. His fight started in June when his transfer process did, and he didn’t receive word on his eligibility until 1 week before Opening Day the next February. Does that make him soft? Signed a former player.
My opinion is not to do away with all transfers, just the willy nilly ones. There has always been a family medical reason for transferring, among other valid reason and the kids could transfer, but the powers that be screwed that up. The main example I point to for saying the wide open transfer just to tansfer is JT Daniels. He has zero nuts & guts. 3 teams in 3 years? There are many like him (especially in basketball) that transfer when things get hard. It's those kids that are becoming soft. Not the guys who transfer once for a reasonable exception.