Gruden is the extremely hot chick at a bar. LOVES the attention, and says nice things to everyone to make them think she likes them back...but there is no way she's leaving her rich boyfriend (see: ESPN) to be with someone that could ruin her reputation (see: any job he's not set up for success from day 1). Gruden is on the path to being a John Madden type sports figure, he's got shows based off his "love" for football (see: Gruden's QB Camp), and he's one of the voices for the NFL draft. He's not leaving ESPN to grind it out 360 of 365 days of the year between coaching, recruiting, making sure his players go to class, etc. If anything, Gruden has his people floating around his name to leverage his position with ESPN.