I finished coaching about a decade ago and playing about 2 decades ago. It is a different game today than it was then. (I played basketball) I say I had 3 college coaches: 1 who recruited me and was fired before I got there, and 2 more during my 4 years. We had ups and downs of course. Being at a small college (800+-students) there was a lot of trouble to get into along with partying and such, but we always knew that when we stepped inside the white, all distractions, worries and any animosity was deleted for the next 2+ hours. We would see our new uniforms each year at the beginning of the season and that was that. I have to believe that any coach who allows the players to choose uniforms does so during the dog days of summer. You know call in the seniors/captains and let them suggest/pick the combos and it takes 30 minutes of their rest period during 2 a days. The reason I believe this is if you go back to CGC first season, the player on the season tickets mirrored the uniform for that game.
As for NAIA and being grateful and all that, most of them are too dumb to realize it. NAIA stands for Not at All Interested in Academics. All kidding aside, the school I worked at was poor, I had to be a substitute teacher in 3 local school systems to make ends meet. My pay from the school was use of a gas card, but I had to be recruiting to use. Luckily there was a school near a bar that was across the street from a gas station. I recruited as much as possible that year! They players were decent, but coaching was really hard because of 2 reasons: they couldn't do what we asked because they just weren't talented enough and game discipline wasn't their forte. They wanted to win and gave 100%, it just wasn't laser focused.
For distractions, I think the team running out to a sea of red in their home stadium was a distraction. Just from my experience, when a gym is empty, you don't play as well. Being able to hear a fart ripped in the layup line is a bad indication. But so is seeing your home stadium almost fully against you, even if it's directed at the coach or admin. Kids aren't yet mentally developed enough to handle that. They are thinking that the coaches/admin are being booed because I'm not doing my job.
Fan is short for fanatic so we're not rational (see my belief that we will be 15-0 Natty Winners!), but when we release anger or frustration publicly, it really does effect the kids. I hope the recruits handlers (parents/guardians/coaches) keep them away from message boards, because nothing good comes out of here. And that is why I try to stay as positive on here. It's easy to kick a team when it's down. It's easy to be doom and gloom. My life journey has led me to believe that you can always take positives and negatives from any situation, but why would you want to feel like a POS? The belief that we will go 15-0 is why I'll be in sec 121 every home game. It's why I drive 3+ hours one way to get to my section. It's why I give to the GTAA, as small as the gift may be. And IF we lose a game, I believe that we will win the next one!