To get respect in the football community is very straight forward, all we can do is win. We'll have the respect as long as we're winning, but as soon as we start to lose, the pyrahna will come out.
On another note, I really don't get people who want to discount our entire schedule to focus only on part of it. We can't count FCS schools as legitimate wins (although they would be skathing losses if we were to lose), so maybe we should not count wins against FBS teams that aren't part of the Power Five. Then we can further disregard wins against teams that aren't in the Top 50 because they suck anyway, especially if they're in our own conference. There we go. The only record that's important is our record against Top 50 teams, but only if they're from the Power Five conferences. Let's judge our success on that.
Bottom line is every game we play is part of our record. In my opinion, anyone who discounts any part of our schedule is promoting an agenda.