As a D1 ref, myself, we’ll certainly make bad calls in a game but the goal is to be consistent and always get the game critical decisions right. If we make a call that isn’t consistent then we’ll have to communicate to the player(s) or coaches and just know it doesn’t help making the same mistake twice even if it’s for the other team. With that said, you ref to how the players and coaches want the game to be played, within reason. Not the fans.
The fans are so bias that they’ll only remember and scrutinize the calls against them unless there was an egregious or game critical decision against the other team. And that tends to build up frustrations by the end of the game. So, now, when I watch games and am rooting for a team, I don’t look for if every call is perfect but if the players and coaches are fine with the calls. You’ll know when they’re not happy with the refs, not just one call. TV angles are just unfair to the refs.