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@Northeast Stinger I have to admit you points were well made, albeit I didn’t necessarily agree with a fair amount, up to a couple of posts ago. I’d have left the political element out because I think you fundamentally misunderstand why people favor one approach over another.
My father, a very wise man by my account, sat me down at a very young age. I’m not white, I’m not black, I’m that mix breed you pick up at the pound. He told me there were going to be people in my lifetime that would not like me because of the way I looked, there would be people that really didn’t care, some that really didn’t care would suddenly care under certain situations & some that would like me. Some would over-try to be friendly for a variety of different reasons, some would try to give me stuff I didn’t deserve & their motivations would span the spectrum from benevolent to pity.
Some of the advice he gave me was priceless. Stand on your own merits. Do not tolerate people patronizing you. Face the competition & beat it. If you can’t beat it on intelligence, beat it on work ethic, but beat it. Persevere through setbacks because there will be many more setbacks than successes. Good things will eventually happen to good people doing good things every day. Bad things will occasionally happen to good people doing good things every day, but good people keep doing good things anyway. Always act like someone’s watching. People who do the right things when nobody’s watching will eventually have someone notice & it will make a difference. There were many others, all solid life advice.
One of life’s little challenges was the face off of the college applications. I could have put damn near anything down & passed for it all. Dad picked white. Told me if my application was competitive, I’d get accepted. See despite anything that had happened to him in his lifetime, he believed in the American Dream & us living in the land of opportunity. Add that to the fact that he didn’t want anything given to us because he fervently believed it leads to dependency, he wanted us to earn everything we have. No breaks.
My father believed that if our family & successive generations were to prosper we needed to assimilate in whatever community we lived in. It’s a lot harder for racist behavior to occur if people are assimilated in the groups that are the core foundation of their communities. Isolationist movements cloaked under the guise of racial solidarity I find are divisive. I’m all for celebrating achievements of those less fortunate, leaders of our country, as they are important in understanding who has contributed to our country’s success. Sadly, many do not know our own history.
I’m sure I’ve gotten breaks in life because of who I am & I’m sure that I’ve gotten setbacks for the same reason. I don’t know what the percentage is. I’ve gotten pulled over, followed, harassed, etc. Frankly I don’t care. All I’ve ever wanted is the opportunity to succeed, not the removal of every impediment to success. If you took away all of life’s roadblocks, what joy or sense of accomplishment would there ever be for a person when they reached one of life’s important milestones?
My father, a very wise man by my account, sat me down at a very young age. I’m not white, I’m not black, I’m that mix breed you pick up at the pound. He told me there were going to be people in my lifetime that would not like me because of the way I looked, there would be people that really didn’t care, some that really didn’t care would suddenly care under certain situations & some that would like me. Some would over-try to be friendly for a variety of different reasons, some would try to give me stuff I didn’t deserve & their motivations would span the spectrum from benevolent to pity.
Some of the advice he gave me was priceless. Stand on your own merits. Do not tolerate people patronizing you. Face the competition & beat it. If you can’t beat it on intelligence, beat it on work ethic, but beat it. Persevere through setbacks because there will be many more setbacks than successes. Good things will eventually happen to good people doing good things every day. Bad things will occasionally happen to good people doing good things every day, but good people keep doing good things anyway. Always act like someone’s watching. People who do the right things when nobody’s watching will eventually have someone notice & it will make a difference. There were many others, all solid life advice.
One of life’s little challenges was the face off of the college applications. I could have put damn near anything down & passed for it all. Dad picked white. Told me if my application was competitive, I’d get accepted. See despite anything that had happened to him in his lifetime, he believed in the American Dream & us living in the land of opportunity. Add that to the fact that he didn’t want anything given to us because he fervently believed it leads to dependency, he wanted us to earn everything we have. No breaks.
My father believed that if our family & successive generations were to prosper we needed to assimilate in whatever community we lived in. It’s a lot harder for racist behavior to occur if people are assimilated in the groups that are the core foundation of their communities. Isolationist movements cloaked under the guise of racial solidarity I find are divisive. I’m all for celebrating achievements of those less fortunate, leaders of our country, as they are important in understanding who has contributed to our country’s success. Sadly, many do not know our own history.
I’m sure I’ve gotten breaks in life because of who I am & I’m sure that I’ve gotten setbacks for the same reason. I don’t know what the percentage is. I’ve gotten pulled over, followed, harassed, etc. Frankly I don’t care. All I’ve ever wanted is the opportunity to succeed, not the removal of every impediment to success. If you took away all of life’s roadblocks, what joy or sense of accomplishment would there ever be for a person when they reached one of life’s important milestones?