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<blockquote data-quote="Deleted member 2897" data-source="post: 773955"><p>1) I am not qualified to give you advice.</p><p>2) Thank you for sharing your situation.</p><p>3) My advice is no matter what, think and pray on it and include your fiance on all your thoughts. Following your heart and gut will lead you in the best direction more often than not.</p><p>4) Don't ever be embarrassed of your situation. We are all different, have been through different life experiences, as have our families.</p><p></p><p>Now some deeper thoughts. I do think you and your fiance need to find your own way and be on your own. If your Mom needs assistance (due to age, etc.), you could certainly look for something with a detached mother-in-law suite, etc. But you all are building your own lives and own identities together and you need your space. If you can find some middle ground where you all aren't very far apart, that will probably help your Mom. I am guessing she will understand your need to be on your own? Have you discussed this with her? If you haven't in grave detail, I encourage you to share all these same feelings with her. Regardless of how things go, I would imagine she would really appreciate knowing how much you love her, are dedicated to her happiness, and how much all this is weighing on you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Deleted member 2897, post: 773955"] 1) I am not qualified to give you advice. 2) Thank you for sharing your situation. 3) My advice is no matter what, think and pray on it and include your fiance on all your thoughts. Following your heart and gut will lead you in the best direction more often than not. 4) Don't ever be embarrassed of your situation. We are all different, have been through different life experiences, as have our families. Now some deeper thoughts. I do think you and your fiance need to find your own way and be on your own. If your Mom needs assistance (due to age, etc.), you could certainly look for something with a detached mother-in-law suite, etc. But you all are building your own lives and own identities together and you need your space. If you can find some middle ground where you all aren't very far apart, that will probably help your Mom. I am guessing she will understand your need to be on your own? Have you discussed this with her? If you haven't in grave detail, I encourage you to share all these same feelings with her. Regardless of how things go, I would imagine she would really appreciate knowing how much you love her, are dedicated to her happiness, and how much all this is weighing on you. [/QUOTE]
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