@684Bee We seem to have many different experiences. Yes, I’ve had the ones whine about not getting as much as they’d hoped for or wanted. Much more fulfilling have been the ones I’ve run into months, years or even decades later. The investment paid off!
A kid destined for jail, last I saw him an E-8 in the Navy. Needed someone to man up and tell him to grow up, not be a punk, etc. Now a career man, family man, great American, highly respected leader among great leaders. There were others like him along the way but he was my first real project.
Wife mentored dozens of kids on welfare, no parents, drug families, etc. She eclipsed 100 full ride college scholarships before she retired. Sometimes they needed a loaf of bread, peanut butter and jelly or 5 lbs of spaghetti and some sauce. Nothing fancy but a little food, some used clothes our kids wouldn’t have been wearing any more and some steadfast encouragement. 12 Masters Degrees, 88 undergrads, 15-20 pending and many still to come in the pipe still but all will make it. 2 knocked up and never went to college. It can be done. Some others work for me, not big money but living honest wages and they’re productive community members.
Just today a kid that was about to give up briefed myself and the team on his department of 20. Wow, it was fantastic.
The nation needs hundreds of thousands of little wins like these but it will not happen unless we do it. The opportunity is out there. The rewards are immense. There’s many ways to contribute but the impersonal contributions just do not work. People make people successful, not a building or a pile of cash.
Keep the faith.